Al Salam Alaikum wa Rahmat Allah wa Barakatoh
Since all of us are human beings, we are exposed to committing sins, it's out of our nature. On the contrary, we shouldn't be proud of doing so, or we shouldn't tell others when we fall in such a problem - I mean when doing any of the sins-. In the coming few lines I want to draw your attention to some of the mistakes we might not be aware of and we might experience after committing any of our sins.
Sometimes the devil "Shitan", "الشيطان" will play on you and insinuates (يوسوس), and tells you that you are the worst person in this life.... you did something that cannot be forgiven....you are just one of my soldiers...if not worse than I do....no matter what you do, you can't erase these big sins....so on and so forth...
How can you respond to such insinuations and temptations?....what can you do? Shall you just listen to these terrible kinds of thoughts?! Will you give up and say: O...yeah...that's right...I'm the worst...I cannot be better than that...I'll do other sins to forget the previous ones.....NO..NO...NO...please...don't listen to such things....I beg you. Ok, I won't listen to these dreadful thoughts...but, what can I do?! Please, help me. I will help you dear, I will
The first thing to do is to feel guilty about what you did, and promise that you'll never do this or these sins again by asking the forgiveness from Allah, and also stop doing that bad thing you were doing, and that's it...after doing these three things...just forget about it, as if you didn't do it...I don't mean for ever, but at least for the time being...so that you can stand up again...and get out of these awful, horrible thoughts...and once again you'll return to your normal life and even better to a more positive life...because as our Lord "Allah" told us that one way of erasing our sins, is doing more good doings "hasanat", "حسنات" after the sins to erase them and substitute them by any kind of goodness.
So, pray more sunnah prayers, fast more sunnah fasting, read more than you usually do, help others, say more "Athkar", "أذكار", visit your parents and relatives, donate more money....etc. Just do any kind of good actions and behaviors that will erase any bad doings and make you feel happy and satisfied.
To be continued....Inshallah.
أعوذ بكلمات الله التامة من غضبه وعقابه وشر عباده، ومن همزات الشياطين، وأن يحضرون،
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