Al Salam Alaikum wa Rahmat Allah wa Barakatoh
Many people in this world are the kind of impatient; annoying ones...Do you know what I mean? I'll tell you…They have some or all of these characteristics:
- They will get angry very quickly and for very minor, small, stupid reasons, then they will be upset, and also they will expect you to come and give them the history of your life as an apology, or all the kinds of excuses - which you don't like to tell anyone about since they are part of your personal life- that you may ever think about, then, they might accept. Lastly, and after few days they will repeat the same thing over and over till you feel really bored and fed up.....An advice from the heart for these kinds of people: Don't expect others to be Angels, we are just human beings, we have our own problems that we ask Allah to solve for us, we are not just living for apologizing, giving excuses, so on and so forth which is really a waste of time....Life is much tougher than that!!! And it needs more patience, and those kinds of people who are broad-minded and mature.
- They will talk about everyone and whoever they want in such an irritating, annoying, unaccepted way, on the contrary, they don't accept any comment from others even if it was such a real "so kind" advice, as if they are never mistaken or wrong.....Please friends treat others just as you wish and expect others to treat you.
- When they do any good thing for others, they will wait for their thanks, or maybe their rewards in return, yet, when others are really busy, or have real excuses not to do so, they will forget about any good thing in these people and will be so sad......I till myself as well as others: Always do the good and don't wait for any thanks or rewards except from Allah.
- When they know about any bad doings or sins of others, they like to spread it out whenever and wherever they can, in contrast, when they have their own wrong doings, they don't want anyone to know about!!! It's really a shame to do such things....And always remember that you will harvest, collect and gather what you planted in this life, as well as the other life.
Dear Badreya,
ReplyDeleteMay i know, to whom you dedicated this ?
He will not behave like child anymore, if he or she read this. but i am worried he or she will read or not because this is not direct to him or her as an e-mail.