Peacefully.....Enter Paradise!!!

Al Salam Alaikum wa Rahmat Allah wa Barakatoh

Yesterday I received only one suggestion regarding the Arabic-English lessons and it was from Anwar Sadat who is the one helping me in the lessons' design, and I'll work on it.  Rather than that, I didn't receive any other comments or suggestions.  This makes me feel that there is no two-way communication among us, though from the statistics I can feel that there are at least some people reading my blog, and I hope that they will benefit.

Any way, today I want to share the explanation of one of the sayings of prophet Mohammad -peace & blessings of Allah be upon him- when he said:

 "أفشوا السلام، وأطعموا الطعام، وصلوا بالليل والناس نيام، تدخلوا الجنة بسلام"

Meaning:

1.  Spread out Salam, say:  Al Salam Alaikum wa Rahmat Allah wa Barakatoh*

2.  Give others food, which can be done in many ways:  By serving your visitors, donating food for
     needy people, feeding whoever you can feed, a friend or even anybody.

3.  Pray at night when most people are sleeping, which is very difficult unless Allah the Great will help

     you to do so, but you can try to do it by:  Trying your best to stay away from committing sins, also

     by having a very light meal at night and of course not to drink much water, juice or whatever drink,

     further, by not exerting much heavy physical work before sleeping, another thing which can help is  

     sleeping at least 10 minutes - 40 minutes muximum during the day time.  And above all else ask the

     help from Allah the Great to grant you this treasurable reward.

Then, when you do the above mentioned things, you'll enter paradise peacefully, this is our prophet, and this is his invaluable golden words, this is the last prophet sent to all mankind.

*Next time inshallah, I'll try to explain the meaning of the muslims' best greeting, which is: Al Salam Alaikum wa Rahmat Allah wa Barakatoh.

Until then, all my kind regards and best wishes to all of you.

A Biiiiig Invitation for All of Youuu......

Al Salam Alaikum wa Rahmat Allah wa Barakatoh

I invite you today to participate in serving humanity, how can we do that?  I would like to have your suggestions and opinions regarding this issue.

I'll start by giving my own suggestion:  What about helping me in translating my blog, so that the blog will be available in more than one language, such as Arabic , Urdu, French, etc.  Here is my email to the ones who are really interested in doing such a service for all people around the world:

**(  ) I'v erased my email from this blog since I was receiving strange emails from irrisponsible people, so, I'm really sorry to do so, but this is for my own safety, so, please forgive me, I ommited my email address on the third of March 2011.  So, whoever wants to give me his/her comments, he/she can do so by writing their comments straight after the particular blog.

Please be active and share with me your ideas, suggestions, discussions, comments, advice, and whatever you'd like to share or suggest.

I'll check my email during the 24 hours, and as much as I can to be able to work together for Allah's sake to serve our universe and the humanity at large.

Will you?!  Sure you will.

Let's Forgive Everybody

Al Salam Alaikum wa Rahmat Allah wa Barakatoh

I would like to talk about an important behavior that I hope will not disappear especially nowadays with the new rhythm of life.  Which is "Forgiveness".

I'll tell you a story which happened with one of the followers of the followers, I can't remember the name, but what's really important are the details of the story regardless of the names, though they were and still are very big names who we'll never forget.

Once a slave of this follower and while doing his job, and by mistake, killed the son of this follower, then when the slave was brought in front of the follower, and you can imagine how angry, sad, surprised...you name it, this follower was.  Can you anticipate what happened?!  Please try to think of something....

Here you are, the slave was such a clever man since he knows his boss and his behavior, so, he reminded him of a verse in the Noble Qur'an and said:

(والكاظمين الغيظ)

Meaning:  That Allah the great is praising these people characterized with these manners and behaviors:  Firstly, the ones who hold their anger either by avoiding being angry, or by not responding to their worldly call, if I may say, to do whatever they want when they are angry.

So, the follower said:  I held my anger.  Then the slave said:

(والعافين عن الناس)

Meaning:  Those people who always forgive others, no matter what these others did for them.

Then, the follower said:  I forgave you.  Then the slave said:

(والله يحب المحسنين)

Meaning:  That Allah the Great loves these kind of people who always do their best towards their Great Creator, Allah, by worshiping no one but him, and by following his orders and avoiding the sins as much as they can,  and also do their best towards all other people whether by helping, assisting, supporting them whether physically, psychologically, socially, financially, etc.

Lastly, the follower said:  You are free for the rest of your life, and no more a slave of mine for the sake of Allah.

Did you expect such a response from someone who've just lost his son who is his heart, by a mistake done by his servant or slave.

It's just a simple example out of the numerous ones our great ancestors were doing, and how they were behaving with each others.  Hence, let all of us try our best to be their followers in our daily life, and in our treatment with everybody......Will you try?....I will...And I'm sure you'll do as well. 

More Secrets of Happiness

Al Salam Alaikum wa Rahmat Allah wa Barakatoh

Prophet Mohammad –peace and blessings of Allah be upon him- said that whoever is awaked in the morning having these three things, he/she will be having the ownership of the whole life, what are these three things?!  Let's see together. 

Firstly, when he/she awakes, what is his/her feeling?!  Feeling secured him/herself as well as his/her family and people, no killing, no robbery, no shooting here and there and everywhere, etc.  So, they are safe and have no fear or any kind of horror or terror.

Secondly, when he/she awakes, they won't have any sickness, no physical pain, in short, they are just healthy.

Thirdly, when he/she awakes, they will find something to eat for that particular day.  Meaning, they won't be starving, or even feeling any kind of hunger or thirst.

Another thing I want to share with all of my unique readers, and it's also another happiness secret, when prophet Mohammad said – I'll explain in my own words, I'm not using the literal meaning- that are some of the key factors of living a nice life, or some of the causes of happiness, which is the good wife who is having these characteristics: 

·        Who whenever you –I mean the husband- see her, she'll be beautiful, which makes her husband happy all the time, even if she is sick or suffering of any kind of problems, that won't affect the way of her treatment towards her husband, there is always such a nice, beautiful, warm smile on her face.  She'll be always caring for her cleanliness and beauty.  Her smell –in her house not outside the house- her smell will be full of fragrance and bouquet all the time.

·        Who whenever you – the husband- ask her to do something, she'll do it right away without being bothered or without complaining, she will even enjoy doing it since she knows that her obeying of her husband is an obedience for Allah The Great who ordered her to do so.

·        Who whenever her husband will be away, she'll be such a loyal, honest, careful wife that will keep herself, or her children away of any kind of danger, or from any strangers who might negatively affect their life or reputation.  And also, she will care of her husband's wealth, money, property, etc.

Arabic-English Lesson 5 (The Days & The Seasons)

Al Salam Alaikum wa Rahmat Allah wa Barakatoh

Secrets of Happiness (1)

Al Salam Alaikum wa Rahmat Allah wa Barakatoh

Sometimes you meet people in this life who see nothing but the empty part of the glass, the negative side of the photograph, and all in all a black vision for the life and even for the entire world at large.

I really feel guilty towards such people since I feel some kind of responsibility to correct their way of thinking and their way of weighing various life issues.

I tell you one of the secrets or even some of the secrets Allah The Great granted me to be happy and satisfied most if not all of the time.  Why did I say most at first then I said all?!!!  I'll tell you WHY???!!!

I said most at first since we are all human beings;  Meaning:  We are not made of iron, thus, there should be some sad moments, painful experiences, critical situations, etc that will allow our tears to flow as easy as the spring flows.  On the other hand, I said that I feel happy and satisfied all of the time since whatever happens to me, I remind myself that it is my fate regardless of how huge or how simple or small this issue is, and do you know what this means?!!!  It means, my net dears, that this thing was written in my fate book, if I may say, fifty thousand years before Allah the Great creates the seven skies and seven earths.

Excuse me!!! From where did you bring this strange piece of information?!!  Firstly, this piece of information is not strange for religious people who read a lot and have somehow good knowledge in Islam out of their readings in the explanations and interpretations of the Noble Qur'an and the Noble Sunnah.

This is one secret of happiness now and then.....What is the second secret?!!  Please tell me....Of Course I'll do but not now...maybe in the coming few hours..Love U All.....  

I'm Happy....

Al Salam Alaikum wa Rahmat Allah wa Barakatoh

I wish that you have learned something useful out of the last two Arabic-English Lessons.  Further, and as I always stress, I need your feedback to improve my writings and to write what you all might benefit from.

Regarding the lessons mentioned earlier, and given the fact that nobody is giving me any opinion, suggestion or even objection, I'll be the one to decide on the number of lessons I'll post on weekly basis.  Thus, I think that posting two lessons a week is fair enough especially for those whom they're just starting learning Arabic.

I also have another idea to make you benefit more from the lessons, which is to give you exercises after say….. eight lessons?!! to check your understanding and ability to learn and memorize.

Caution:  To whom it may concern and for those who want to know more about my personal life, I think that what I mentioned about myself in my personal blog is more than enough.  And all of us should be concerned about the knowledge of the person not his private life.

Thank you very much and see you soon....

"La Ellaha Ella Allah"

Al Salam Alaikum wa Rahmat Allah wa Barakatoh

So....So....Soooooo...Sorry being unable to post anything the last few days out of my health situation.

Today I want to talk about one of the most important and interesting things for all of us which is "Thikru Allah", meaning; when you repeat any of the expressions we were taught by prophet Mohammad -peace and blessings of Allah be upon him- such as the followings:

1.  "Subhana Allah, wa Al Hamdulellah, wa La Ellaha Ella Allah, wa Allaho Akbar"
2.  "Subhana Allah wa behamdeh, Subhana Allah Al Adheem"
3.  "La Hawla wa La Quwwata Ella bellah"
4.  "Subhana Allah Al Adheem wa behamdeh"
5.  "Subhana Allah wa behamdeh Adada khalqih, wa redha nafseh, wa Zenata Arsheh, wa Medada 
     Kalimateh".
Further, and above all else:  "La Ellaha Ella Allah Wahdaho La Shareeka Laho, Laho Al Molku, wa Laho Al Hamd, wa Howa Ala Kolli Shaien Kadeer", and this last one is the best among all what all prophets said from Adam till Mohammad -peace and blessings of Allah be upon all of them-.

To be continued....

Maybe after One, Two, or Three Hours.....

Al Salam Alaikum wa Rahmat Allah wa Barakatoh

Within few hours I'll be posting my nice topic for today or let's say tonight.

Don't miss this unique discussion, really I would like it to be an open discussion for all of you, to give me the right feedbak right away after you read my next post.

Shall I Cry?!!!! Of Coure not....Just Kidding :p

Al Salam Alaikum wa Rahmat Allah wa Barakatoh

How is everybody?!!  I hope all of you are fine...

Forgive me these days since I'm flying from a hospital to another doing all the investigations and tests to have at least a second opinion on my last findings in India and Thailand.

One thing just now jumped to my mind which is the spiritual and psychological support from the people around you, especially when you're experiencing a kind of , say, a critical health circumstances?!!!  Maybe...This type of assistance is neither expensive, nor difficult to be done.  I can give you an example of that:  If you have a relative, a friend, or any beloved person admitted at the hospital, is it that difficult to visit him/her?!!!  If it is so, is it too difficult to call him/her to ask about their health?!!!  And if it is also so, aren't you able to send him/her a message saying:  I wish you speedy recovery or even only a smiling face   :)  I think that this is sooo easy but not for everybody it might be easy for the ones who Allah guided them to his right path.

And here I'll tell you only one saying of prophet Mohammad peace and blessings of Allah be upon him regarding this issue; I mean visiting sick people.  Prophet Mohammad said that whoever visits a sick person during daytime, there will be seventy thousand Angels praying for him/her until evening, and whoever visits a sick person in the evening, there will be seventy thousand Angels praying for him/her until morning. (Sa7ee7 Al Termithy). 

See this gracious rewards from our Great Lord Allah....Besides there are many other generous rewards from Allah for the same issue which I'll try to mention in my next post...Wait For It..... 

Thailand!!!!!!!

Al Salam Alikum wa Rahmat Allah wa Barakatoh

Bumrungrad International, this is the name of the hospital in which I'm receiving my medication, but I don't know why do they call it the American Hospital?!!!  If anyone of you knows, please tell me!!!.  Am I in a dream land?  Am I going through such a nice luxurious dream that I don't want to be awake of?!!  It's just awesome....It's just amazing..........Wooooooooooow, I really appreciate every single penny I'm spending in this hospital, even though and up till now I spent at least about 250,000 Thailand Baht, but still they deserve it and I really mean it, and even they deserve much more, but unfortunately I'm paying from my own pocket, and still I'm not that rich, though soon I'll be inshallah, if not, I would have given them at least double this amount, and when I do so, it would be accompanied with such a big..big...nice ....Smile... :).....

Another thing I would like to mention about Thailand, and I'm really amazed and surprised myself to say it, the people of Thailand, or let me be more specific, say all the staff, meaning; Doctors, Nurses, Employees whether Seniors, Juniors or even the Servants, if I may say, again ALL of the staff,  at the hospital as well as most of the people of the Arabian Area located in the hospital nearby, what's wrong with all these people, no..no,, nothing wrong with them, but it is totally the opposite, they are all just sooooo....cute...sooo...polite, respectful...you name it...I would really wish to know from where they brought all this kindness?!!!! .  On the other hand, and to be fair there are quit a large group that has nothing to do with this country's values...And I think that what I mean is understandable without any further explanation.

Assigning this topic for Thailand and its GOOD kind of people is out of my duty being a Muslim, and part of the saying of prophet Mohammad -the blessings & peace of Allah be upon him-

"لم يشكر الله من لم يشكر الناس"

Meaning; Never ever thanked Allah The Great, who did not thank the people - of course who deserve- .  Wishing you all the best... See ya....Sooooon..

Believe it or Not, Its up to YOU.... :)

Al Salam Alaikum wa Rahmat Allah wa Barakatoh

Dear brothers and sisters, global wise, I was thinking whether to tell you this personal information about me or not, and lastly I desided to tell you, but if you see that I was mistaken to do so, please forgive me.

This personal information is regarding my health, maybe you remeber that recently I foundout and out of my Indian Medication Journey, that I'm a Romatoid Arthrithis patient, another finding here in the American Hospital in Thailand was that I might have a kind of Cancer in my stomach or intestines, they're still not quit sure about it, but I feel that it is true out of the severe symptoms I'm having more than three months back and till this moment.

I'm not telling you that for fun, or to trigger your sypathy or tears, since I'm brave enough, and also proud enough to accept it and even be happy with it.  What I really want out of it is your "Doa'a" that Allah will cure me even if it was Cancer, or if not, that Allah will give me the health to complete what I started ......For the sake of Allah... Or the last and not the least if it was my time to leave this life that Allah will forgive me and accepts me as a good slave of him.

No one can imagine how happy I am these days, I feel that I'm in the Paradize rightnow...I swear...I cannot describe my feelings....Love All Of YOU...Please FORGIVE ME.....

Gheeba -3-

Al Salam Alaikum wa Rahmat Allah wa Baraka

This time I want to complete my last topic on "Gheeba", so, I was stating the reasons behind assigning more than one post on "Gheeba":

5.  "Gheeba" is spread out between and among most people of the society, not only uneducated people, but even university graduates, and above those are some "Talabut Al Elm", meaning; the people who dedicated themselves to learn the knowledge of Islam, they learn all the fields of Islam, such as:  "Aqeeda"  :  Which is the Oneness of Allah, besides, there are many different and very useful fields such as the followings:  Al Hadeeth Al Shareef,  Al Fiqh, Al Seera Al Nabaweiia, The Knowledge of Arabic Language since it is the language of the Noble Qur'an, etc.

6.  Gheeba is considered nowadays like the fruit of any gathering of people and even worse people from different ages, backgrounds, cultures, etc.

7.  When you commit Gheeba, as if you are donating but not money, no….no….I hope it was the case, but NO, when doing such a thing as if you are donating your "Hasanat" to someone else.

8.   And last but not least, the person who commits Gheeba is hated by himself before being hated by others, (this point needs detailed elaborations which are my responsibility for my beloved web-friends, maybe next session inshaallah).

An Invitation:

This is an invitation for all of us to join a Group Discussion on this particular topic as well as any other one, whether it was on my previous posts or on any other suggested topics.

In Thailand!.....

Al Salam Alaikum wa Rahmat Allah wa Barakatoh

How are all of you?...I hope that all of you are good.  I don't know what to tell you since I'm feeling really tired out of all the investigations and tests done for me here in Thailand, and by the way when I checked the statistical information regarding the audience of my blog, I found out that there were two new views from Thailand where I am residing right now for my medication journey.

These examinations were done from the early morning till the evening, thus, they took most of my time, because of that, I couldn't write anything today.

I might have a-post-per-day except when being too busy.  Now excuse me all, since I have to take a rest before I go through the intensive investigation program tomorrow early morning.

Wait for "Gheeba "-3- .......Dears.

"Gheeba" What Is It?! & How Can I Leave It?!!!

Al Salam Alaikum wa Rahmat Allah wa Barakatoh

I really really really missed alllll of you...need not to tell you the reasons since you know them?!!!! Am I right?   I think so.....

What I want to share with you today is something that is really being spread out all over the world cause the majority thinks that it is a kind of fun which they want to "KILL THE TIME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" when doing it.  Did you know what I mean?  I think that 80% ,if not more, of you might know what do I mean.  "Gheeba"*, yes exactly this is what I mean.

Furthermore, do you know that this sins is considered -according to our scholars- "KABEERA", and not "Sagheera", why?!!! Pls, help me this is my life, this is my "Fruits" that I can't live without them, and even more this is about 90 if not 99% of my speech?!!! PLS.. How Can I Get Rid of it?!!!!

Don't worry web-dears, I'll tell you the solution right away:

 

1.      First of all make real "Tawbah" –which means ask the forgiveness of Allah the Great Lord-  under all its conditions ( To be for the sake of Allah, to be during the accepted time; meaning before you die & before the sun raises from the West rather than the East as Allah said in the Noble Qur'an and as our prophet Mohammad-peace & blessings of Allah be upon him- taught us.

2.      Secondly, STOP IT, STOP IT, STOP IT; meaning stop talking negatively about people, NOW, got it?!!! NOW.

3.      Thirdly, you should feel sorry and guilty for what you did.

4.      Lastly, you must have the real intention not to do it again.

5.      The four conditions mentioned earlier are the ones that apply for all types of sins between you and Allah, on the other hand, and according to "Gheeba" which is considered as a sins between you and the slaves of Allah, whether they were Muslims or Respectful Non-Muslims.  This kind of sins cannot be erased unless you ask the forgiveness of this particular person during your life.  On the other hand, if you expect that this person will not forgive you but even worse he/she might do something even worse, in this case don't tell him/her but you make Doa'a and Istighfar for him/her

*  Gheeba is to negatively talk about others either you'll mention something true about them, or something not right or not true, it doesn't matter, and this thing you mentioned is hated by this person you're taking behind him/her.

Want to Change Your Life?...Start From Yourself...

Al Salam Alaikum wa Rahmat Allah wa Barakatoh

Allah The Great said in The Noble Qur'an-the book which is sent by Allah The Great for ALL MANKIND by Prophet Mohammad -peace and blessing of Allah be upon him- .....Allah said:  (إن الله لا يغير ما بقوم حتى يغيروا ما بأنفسهم ) meaning:  Allah will not change the (good) condition of people as long as they do not change their state (of goodness) themselves (by committing sins and by being ungrateful and disobedient to Allah)*.

This is what I told you last time, thus, start by changing yourself, and then you'll be able to change your life and live it to its optimal capacity.....Live it to the most of it....Live it being a pioneer in every single aspect of your life...

*Interpretation of the Meanings of The Noble Qur'an In The English Language, A Summarized Version of At-Tabari, Al-Qurtubi and Ibn Kathir with comments from Sahih Al-Bukhari.  Dr. Muhammad Muhsin Khan
Dr.  Muhammad Taqi-ud-Din Al-Hilali, DARUSSALAM.

Here is a special offer for all my web-friends around the world, whoever wants a copy of the Interpretation of Qur'an, I stated earilier, he can get a copy by sending me an email requesting it, and sending me his/her P.O.Box.  And I'll send them a FREE copy, a gift for him/her.


To be continued... 

Feeling Depressed?!!...Want to Kill Yourself or Someone else?!!....Come and Release Yourself!!!

Al Salam Alaikum wa Rahmat Allah wa Barakatoh

My topic today is different, you can say it is a request?!! Or maybe a beg?!!! Or let us make it more professional:  It is an invitation for all of us to do what?!!! To FORGIVE, FORGIVE, FORGIVE, then to Forgive, Forgive, Forgive.  And finally, to forgive, forgive and forgive.

Excuse me Oh Strange Lady, to forgive whoooom?!!!!!

I'll tell you,,,, to forgive everybody....just everybody....without any exception...And start with yourself...Forgive yourself for anything you did, I mean for any kind of sins you did..since you want to correct yourself and you feel sorry for what you did, and you really feel guilty....BUT,

BECAREFUL, ......DON'T feel guilty all the time, if you asked the forgiveness from Allah, then, that's it:  Move on and don't stop, don't just sit doing nothing but blaming and blaming and blaming yourself.

After forgiving yourself, now LOVE, LOVE and LOVE  yourself, respect yourself, and much more.....REWARD YOURSELF.....For any kind of achievement...no matter how small or minor it is...reward yourself for it.  Never wait anyone to reward you or tell you thank you since you are working for Allah's sake and not for anyone else.

That's really just GREAT...I forgived myself....I love and respect myself.....And also I'm rewarding myself for everything even when I get a full mark in a quiz or assignment....Wooooooooow...What special nice feelings I'm experiencing right now....Its just amazing...Am I dreaming.....No, my dear, you are not, but it is the change you made in yourself...And what you're feeling right now is only, and I stress and I really mean it...It is the easiest or the very row, if I may say, or the simplest outcome that you can ever have out of what I adviced you to do.

To be continued.....When?!!  Hopefully, very soon.

Thanks for U Bishara & other Colleagues

Al Salam Alaikum wa Rahmat Allah wa Barakatoh

I assigned this post for unique thanks to all my colleagues who read my blogs and comment on them whether once or on regular basis.

A Pink Flower Bouquet for My beloved friend and sister Bishara for her special, encouraging, full of love comments, Bishara I am really proud of you, and I love YOU.

Without mentioning names I love you all my sisters in Islam, specially:  Hiba, Fatma Al Quraini, Muza, Fatma Salama, Raneem, Basma, Al Fan, Al Sughairah, Suha, Safia, all my class-mates, did I miss anyone?!!! Hope not...

Wait for my main post this night...too busy now!!!!

Special Thanks....For Special Comments!!!

Al Salam Alaikum wa Rahmat Allah wa Barakatoh

Here and now and always I will say:  Thank you, thank you, thank you for all those special people reading my blogs on regular basis.

Many Many Many more special thanks for other close readers who gave me their treasurable comments which gave me the guide and triggered me to work on improving myself as well as my writings.

Big Hug for my niece Fattoom on her unique comment, another big hug for one of by best friends Amira, and also for Amira my niece on her neat, silken, and velvet comments.

Also, Many Thanks for my sister Amna, the mother of Amira, for her ongoing verbal encouragement and comments.  Many other Thanks for my sister Aisha, the mother of Fattoom, for her nice sms message regarding my blog.

And last but not the least for my Beloved Sister in law, Fatma, for everything....I really mean it Fatma:   Thank you for EveryThing

A Big Hug.....For My Little Baby!!!

Al Salam Alaikum wa Rahmat Allah wa Barakatoh

Long time passed without meeting with my beloved electornic-friends, on the other hand whatever were the reasons unenabling me to meet with you, be sure that you have a special warm place deep and deep in my heart. 

In additon, one major reason is my sickness, another major reason is finishing up the piles and piles of delayed work, assignments, projects and quizes out of the one-week-Indian medication journey.

Starting my post with these stuff, may not be of importance to many of you, but it may be so for others, and don't consider this an apology since never ever think that I will have the health, time and well to write then, I won't do it.

My blog is my little baby that I visit not only on daily basis but on much more than that, Is any of you able to leave his/her little baby without any care.

Another thing I would like to mention is some kind of admonishment not to find comments on my different topics and that is not for the comments as being any comments, but for them as a guide for me to correct, develop, improve, etc. my writings for everybody's benefit!!!

This is ofcourse not my main post for today,,, Wait For My Real Post in the coming minutes or maybe the coming few hours.

C  U  then.....