"Gheeba" What Is It?! & How Can I Leave It?!!!

Al Salam Alaikum wa Rahmat Allah wa Barakatoh

I really really really missed alllll of you...need not to tell you the reasons since you know them?!!!! Am I right?   I think so.....

What I want to share with you today is something that is really being spread out all over the world cause the majority thinks that it is a kind of fun which they want to "KILL THE TIME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" when doing it.  Did you know what I mean?  I think that 80% ,if not more, of you might know what do I mean.  "Gheeba"*, yes exactly this is what I mean.

Furthermore, do you know that this sins is considered -according to our scholars- "KABEERA", and not "Sagheera", why?!!! Pls, help me this is my life, this is my "Fruits" that I can't live without them, and even more this is about 90 if not 99% of my speech?!!! PLS.. How Can I Get Rid of it?!!!!

Don't worry web-dears, I'll tell you the solution right away:

 

1.      First of all make real "Tawbah" –which means ask the forgiveness of Allah the Great Lord-  under all its conditions ( To be for the sake of Allah, to be during the accepted time; meaning before you die & before the sun raises from the West rather than the East as Allah said in the Noble Qur'an and as our prophet Mohammad-peace & blessings of Allah be upon him- taught us.

2.      Secondly, STOP IT, STOP IT, STOP IT; meaning stop talking negatively about people, NOW, got it?!!! NOW.

3.      Thirdly, you should feel sorry and guilty for what you did.

4.      Lastly, you must have the real intention not to do it again.

5.      The four conditions mentioned earlier are the ones that apply for all types of sins between you and Allah, on the other hand, and according to "Gheeba" which is considered as a sins between you and the slaves of Allah, whether they were Muslims or Respectful Non-Muslims.  This kind of sins cannot be erased unless you ask the forgiveness of this particular person during your life.  On the other hand, if you expect that this person will not forgive you but even worse he/she might do something even worse, in this case don't tell him/her but you make Doa'a and Istighfar for him/her

*  Gheeba is to negatively talk about others either you'll mention something true about them, or something not right or not true, it doesn't matter, and this thing you mentioned is hated by this person you're taking behind him/her.