The "Iron Woman"!!!!!

Al Salam Alaikum wa Rahmat Allah wa Barakatoh

As a working woman...Shall I be depressed most -if not all- of the time?!  Shall I keep this frightening frown on my face terrifying all those people around me?! 

Even if I was -somehow- forced to go out of my "sweet home", it doesn't mean that I should "get back at" all the people around me.  I should know that this life is a big EXAM, TEST, or as it is spread out nowadays,  A BIG CHALLENGE, so why don't I be a positive person just like what I always claim.  I have to do what I write to myself and as what I "hang" all over my room "be positive", "be strong", "be a loving and a beloved person", be, be, be.....

It's not a matter of how much you read, how much you write, how much you advise others to do, it's a matter of practicing that in my daily life, it's a matter of applying my knowledge in the real life.

Knowledge is such a treasured thing that will never ever be with you unless you use it in every single aspect of your life.  I read about patience, then I told people to be patient, but, I "myself" was not patient when I was supposed to be!!!  Will I be a good example for others?!...Of course not....Be sure that most people and clever people won't be influenced by your speech as much as your real actions and did.

Finally, always remember that people around you have feelings, even if they were so kind, patient, strong and positive, it doesn't mean that their hearts are made of steel or are just stones.....No, not at all, they're still humans, as fragile as glass, so don't miss those who really love you...miss you...and care about you...because they won't be all the time in that nice mood, strong health, and that willingness to forget and forgive!!!